Parenting boys, while fun and love-filled, can be messy, challenging and downright confusing. That confusion can be particularly overwhelming for moms, as many women aren’t born with an inherent understanding of boys.
As humans, we are naturally wired to connect more easily with those who behave and communicate the way we do.
Unfortunately, for many moms, boys and their behavior can feel foreign and confusing.
Add to that increasingly busy lifestyles and a mountain of responsibilities competing for your attention, and you have a recipe for frustration, overwhelm and exhaustion.
You want what’s best for your son, but you may feel like you haven’t learned the “secret code” to navigate the complex and ever-changing world of raising a boy.
Some of the challenges can seem insurmountable.
It may feel especially daunting when schools, day cares, and sports teams aren’t always structured to fit his active style, either.
It’s not easy. Maybe you’ve felt like these parents:
“My boy just won’t listen to me. I have to repeat myself constantly.”
“He is so smart, but he hates school. I don’t know how to help him.”
“I’m in an endless battle with the iPad for his attention.”
“I hate losing my temper with my son. This just isn’t who I am.”
“No matter what I do, he won’t talk to me.”
Fortunately, you can change what isn’t working.
It begins with recognizing that there is nothing wrong with our boys and they don’t need fixing.
We often try to mold boys into who WE want them to be, rather than giving them room to grow in their own brilliant way—in their own time.
When you can offer your son a secure, safe harbor, he will be able to grow into himself while resisting peer pressure and the cultural norms that are telling him to “man up.”
It is impossible to do this alone.
I’m here to help.
Get started on the journey to a more joyful and connected relationship with your son and learn how to support him in boy-friendly ways.
You need an ally. Your family needs an unbiased champion. That’s me. I help you restore confidence in your parenting and bring more peace into your home.
flexible Family Coaching programs help you
Develop more patience with yourself so you’ll have more patience with your son.
Stop worrying about the “what-ifs” and focus on the now.
Foster a deeper connection with your son, no matter what stage he’s in.
Communicate with him in a more attuned and boy-friendly way.
Coaching begins with recognizing and amplifying what’s already going well—which can often be overlooked.
I guide you to focus on the changes that will have the greatest long-lasting effect. Together, we'll explore the impact of how you were raised and how it plays out in your own parenting. You’ll begin to recognize where you react and where you shut down. Understanding that you hold the key to the positive changes you desire, I’ll provide the spark to get you moving—and keep you moving—in the right direction.
Boys Alive! offers these Family Coaching programs
My wealth of experience as an educator, parent, and expert on boy-centric development is available through a variety of resources—when you need it, where you need it, and how you need it.
Boys Alive! Blog: Get in-depth insights from me and guest authors on parenthood, education, child development and the hardwired nature of boys.
ON BOYS podcast: Join me and my co-host, Jennifer L. W. Fink, mom of four boys, as we explore and explain boy behavior, and interview esteemed guests. Subscribe to the podcast here.
Online community: Join the Boys Alive! private Facebook group where you can share, celebrate, ask questions, and support other parents of boys. Request to join here.
Book recommendations: Take a look at my handpicked list of books. I’ve read them all and refer to them often.
Learning Labs: Targeted online class that deep-dives into a specific topic to help you expand your parenting skills.
Micro-Courses: These 30-minute self-guided video and pdf courses focus on topics that parents struggle with - screens, sibling relationships, and help with chores.
The Solutions Center
You’ll have access to:
Expert Interviews and Toolkits: Interviews chock-full of advice from parenting experts, plus resources and tools.
Video quick tips, downloadable PDFs and more.
Monthly live Q & A with me.
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